Thursday, March 20, 2008

Family is Everything

My trip to India was wonderful mainly because I got the chance to spend time with my family members. In the States, I only have my paternal uncle, aunt, and two cousins and while I love them to death, there are definitely times when I miss my extended family - all of whom live in India. So while I was there, I really tried to cherish every minute that I got to spend with them. I didn't want to shop, sightsee, or do anything else. For me, it was just wonderful lying in the laps of my grandmothers while they stroked my hair. I soaked in every ounce of love that I received from all of them.

Upon getting back to the States, I felt somewhat lonely. I missed being surrounded by a big extended family. I missed all the laughs, jokes, and things that only your blood can understand. Since my family is so small in this country, I have to learn to appreciate them more. Instead of sometimes taking them for granted, I need to let them know how important they are to me, whether it be in the form of a visit, phone call, email, or card. Because without your family, you are nothing and to me, my family is my everything.